An interesting story about motherhood and love:
My mom only had one eye. I hated her… she was such an embarrassment…
My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell…
Anything for the money we needed she was such an embarrassment.
There was this one day during elementary school.. It was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. how could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out, the next day at school… “your mom only has one eye?!?!” ..and they taunted me.
I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so, I said to my mom, “mom.. why don’t you have the other eye?! If you’re only gonna make me a laughingstock,
Why don’t you just die?!!!” My mom did not respond..
I guess i felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that i had said what iÃ¢â‚¬â„¢d wanted to say all this time.. maybe it was because my mom hadnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t punished me, but i didnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t think that i had hurt her feelings very badly.
That nightÃ¢â‚¬Â¦I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye.
So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful cause i hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.. Then i studied real hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, i got married. I bought a house of my own. then I had kids, too.. Now iÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because itÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s a place that doesnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t remind me of my mom.
This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when..
What?! WhoÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s this?! Ã¢â‚¬Â¦it was my motherÃ¢â‚¬Â¦.still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my momÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s eye. And i asked her,
Ã¢â‚¬Å“Who are you?!Ã¢â‚¬Â I donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t know you!!!Ã¢â‚¬Â as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her,Ã¢â‚¬Â how dare you come to my house and scare my daughter!Ã¢â‚¬Â
Ã¢â‚¬Å“GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!Ã¢â‚¬Â
And to this, my mother quietly answered, Ã¢â‚¬Å“oh, iÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m so sorry. i may have gotten the wrong address,Ã¢â‚¬Â and she disappeared out of sight. Thank goodnessÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ she doesnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t recognize me.. I was quite relieved. I told myself that i wasnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life. Then a wave of relief came upon meÃ¢â‚¬Â¦
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, lying to my wife that i was going on a business trip, i went. After the reunion, i went down to the old shack, that i used to call a houseÃ¢â‚¬Â¦just out of curiosity
There, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her handÃ¢â‚¬Â¦. it was a letter to me.
My sonÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ I think my life has been long enough now.. andÃ¢â‚¬Â¦I wont visit Seoul anymoreÃ¢â‚¬Â¦
but would it be too much to ask if i wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much.. and I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the schoolÃ¢â‚¬Â¦.for youÃ¢â‚¬Â¦
And iÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m sorry that i only have one eye, and i was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. as a mom, i couldnÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eyeÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ so i gave you mineÃ¢â‚¬Â¦I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did.. the couple times that you were angry with me,..I thought to myself, Ã¢â‚¬ËœItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s because he loves me..Ã¢â‚¬â„¢
My sonÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ oh, my sonÃ¢â‚¬Â¦ I donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t want you to cry for me, because of my death. Please donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t cryÃ¢â‚¬Â¦my son, I love you so much .